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Parenting & Unschooling

Raising free thinkers and unlearning what school taught us about learning.

The Real World They Kept Warning Me About

The Real World They Kept Warning Me About

On the two questions I get asked more than any others
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The Gaps Are Not the Problem

The Gaps Are Not the Problem

On watching a child learn what he actually wants to know
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A Stubborn and Steady Refusal of the Default

A Stubborn and Steady Refusal of the Default

On the life that was expected, the one we built instead, and what it actually required.
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The Brake We Put on Curiosity

The Brake We Put on Curiosity

On what happens when nobody tells a child a thing is hard
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Home Is a Place You Are

Home Is a Place You Are

On owning less, the particular freedom of a child who knows where home actually is, and the question that quietly stopped one day.
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Growth or Obedience

Growth or Obedience

On what a rule can teach you and what only a choice can. On doing something well or doing something true to you
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The Permission Nobody Is Coming to Give You

The Permission Nobody Is Coming to Give You

On leaving the mainstream path with your kids, and the loneliness nobody warns you about.
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I’m Not Scared of Raising My Son Outside the System

I’m Not Scared of Raising My Son Outside the System

On what the system actually produces, and why I became more afraid of it than of the unknown.
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Trust the No Before You Trust the Yes

Trust the No Before You Trust the Yes

On unschooling, wrong turns, and why the clearest decisions start with knowing what to refuse.
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What Toddlers Still Remember

What Toddlers Still Remember

On pure beings, muddy knees, and what we forgot.
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The Childhood We Carry in Our Cells

The Childhood We Carry in Our Cells

On what early life writes into the body, and how long it stays there.
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The Mirror our Children hold up to Us

The Mirror our Children hold up to Us

The Mirror Our Children Hold Up to Us
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